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Does My Baby Wear My Shame?

Her eyes are soft but loud. And sometimes I can’t tell if the silence in our nursery is hers or mine. The bibs are monogrammed. The pacifiers are matte. The blankets match the yacht interior. But does she glow for herself—or me?

Some mornings, I cry while folding her cashmere. It's not exhaustion. It's curation. I don't dress her for the day—I brand her for the gaze of others I don't name. I wonder if her crib should whisper old money or new guilt. I wonder if her tantrum echoes my own repressed chaos in designer shoes. I wonder if my lullabies sound like legacy.

Shop Sirius Zen Method rituals aren't just aesthetics—they're bridges between our visible peace and internal unrest. Between scented pajamas and unscented confessions.

Does the nanny love her more? Or is it just that the nanny listens better? I envy the way my daughter collapses into someone else’s lap, effortless. My own arms ache from curating stillness I can't maintain. I buy her silence. I gift her gold. I teach her how to bow before she learns how to bite. Sometimes, I think I want her to reflect not who I was, but who I pretend to be now.

Read Proto Soul – Break.Code.Begin when the nursery lights go off and all that’s left is filtered guilt and inherited tenderness, hidden beneath silk booties and Instagram captions. Sometimes, I whisper her name into satin and it sounds more like apology than affection.

I post her glow. I edit her tantrums. I coordinate her toys. And I wonder—am I raising a child, or designing a brand?

Explore Viva Code – Crack.Flow.Flame if you’ve ever held a bottle in silence wondering if the formula tastes like control or freedom. If you've ever named a child before knowing your own name. If your daughter’s softness frightens you more than her rage.


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